Yes, sounds very much the same. I get how people want to be self sufficient (me, too) but we have just had an illustration with my aunt that she doesn't need to do this alone.
Sadly the endgame and "fix" to all of this is that my three elderly relatives die, which is not something that I want in a hurry.
And Mum's just rung - she didn't go to the hospital and has spent most of the night trying to get through to someone to find out ANYTHING about him. Now she's finally managed to find out where he is and visiting hours - but nothing else!
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Yes, sounds very much the same. I get how people want to be self sufficient (me, too) but we have just had an illustration with my aunt that she doesn't need to do this alone.
Sadly the endgame and "fix" to all of this is that my three elderly relatives die, which is not something that I want in a hurry.
And Mum's just rung - she didn't go to the hospital and has spent most of the night trying to get through to someone to find out ANYTHING about him. Now she's finally managed to find out where he is and visiting hours - but nothing else!